I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.

Your pain brings my pleasure, your tears my laughter, your anguish brings me peace, your  suffering soothes my soul.

Bring me your mind, bring me your body. Give them to me and let me do with them as I will.

Let me show you how easily the line blurs when you're in my presence and under my control.

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I am a strict discipline provider of domestic OTK punishment.  Paddling brings Me joy and How hard do I intend to spank You?

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Well.....Let's just say You'll be sobbing uncontrollably long before I intend to stop!

A Mistress/Slave Dynamic

Think about what a fulfilling dynamic is to me. 

Not strictly tying someone to the bed, it is not on and off whenever you feel like it....

Spanking and Correction therapy. Is really not to be confused with hardcore BDSM

It is a real therapy and can help many people in ways of overwhelming stress in their lives.

A submissive finds therapy/stress relief, and a sense of calm through the relinquishing of power.

"CRYING"

Tears are a cathartic release, allowing the body and mind to deal with negative emotions.

Crying for long periods releases oxytocin and endogenous endorphins,

These feel good chemicals can help ease both physical and emotional pain,

Once the endorphins are released, your body may go numb.

It is a truly spiritual form of release.   

"GUILT RELIEF"

It is a form of penance, allowing the spankee to accept and repent. 

As a Catholic I know the value of admitting sin and guilt. 

"CHILDHOOD'

In many cases, adults have grown up in households where consequences and punishment are the norm. 

It brings a sense of comfort from early childhood experience's.

Once We have established whether or not this suits your needs.

I will sit down and discuss what "I" feel will work.

Your experience will be custom tailored to your needs.

Please remember it will not be excessive on first visits BUT, it will be sufficient enough

for you to remember why you have visited in the first place.

Just coming over once will not work for you in this service area.

I would strongly suggest that you visit every 2 to 3 weeks for it to benefit you.

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SISSY"S, SUBS, AND SLAVES

I do offer Sissy training, a process of emasculation to help you find your effeminate side.

How to do makeup, dress, and be subservient to Mistress.

How to walk, how to verbalize properly, and gesture in a female approximation.

How to cross your legs properly and adopt Fem habits.

I DO NOT PURCHASE or provide clothing, make up, or shoes  for your Sissy persona.

But I will happily store in your own plastic bin for you if you are not able to take them to your vanilla world.

If you require help in shopping for the proper attire I will assist in all areas that are needed.

After completing Sissy training, The Sissy formerly known as Let's say Mike, will be celebrated by 

the changing it's name to it's Sissy name of Michelle for example.

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HOUSE SLAVES

Personally I only take on one house boy at a time.

This is a coveted position.

I heavily VET out My house boy position. No SLACKERS

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TASKS FOR HOUSEBOY

Housework cleaning, dusting, organizing.

Laundry day, You get to wash my panties.

Painting, yard work, watering the garden.

Remodeling as I see fit.

Chauffeuring Mistress on errand days.

Gym days for Mistress, House boy is allowed as My guest to the gym and full use of the facilities.

You will tote My gym bag, carry My water, I will instruct You on workouts.

You will wait without moving while I tan and get a massage.

This is an earned privilege.  

At a signal, ringing the bell, House boy must immediately appear in front of Mistress on their knees.

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In education for the coveted position there is a give and take, Just like purposely disobeying a command.

Pure arbitrariness is sufficient to punish the houseboy.

Typical punishments are OTK

Of course, My imagination might range when humiliating My Houseboy to having you kneel on grains of rice.

Crawling and groveling to get back in My good graces.

The electric dog collar, Mistress keeps a tight leash.

Chastity cage, If I feel this is required. 

I despise laziness.   

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 “Women belong in all places where decisions are being made. It shouldn’t be that women are the exception.” — Ruth Bader Ginsburg

• Financial Control and Domination

DEBT CONTRACT

• A Fin Dom Debt Contract is a way for you to be indebted and bound to Me.
• How much do you owe Me, slave? How much do you need to pay Me for being a presence in your life, for breathing the same air as you or for My valuable time you are about to take up?
• You owe Me an amount that cannot be paid at once, so we are going to agree to a contract. Here is how it will work. Kneel and take note – we don’t want your finances getting worse now, do we?!
• You shall make an initial tribute of no less than $50 via any of My tribute methods.
• You will tell Me the amount you owe, your minimum weekly payment (payable every Friday), your name and/or Twitter handle.
• I will draw up a personalized contract and email it to you within 48 hours. Yes, I know, you will be desperate to hear from your Mistress. How many times will you check your emails, waiting for word from your Findom Banker?
• Your debt may be increased by any of the following:
• weekly interest (5% minimum)
• admin fees
• overpayment fees
• late payment tax
• weekly payment reminder
• final payment fee
• spin-the-wheel debt increases
• spin-the-wheel interest rate
• broken chastity tax (optional)                                                                                         
• You will be issued with a monthly statement so you can see where on the spiral of debt you are.
  My bank is always open and ready to receive your hard-earned cash so make sure you visit often.
•  After all, that money won’t deposit itself!
  
  
                                                                                           HUMAN ATM
• I absolutely adore this type of Fin sub! I can never have too big a team of them, all chomping at the bit, ready to come to My call. It’s time to be useful in the only way you can. Be excited pay pig, you have a purpose!

Becoming a Human ATM is simple. You shall pay an initial installation fee of no less than $ 50 via any of My tribute methods.
I will issue demands for you to dispense via your initial contact method. These will be done efficiently as all good machines do.
All ATMs have withdrawal limits – you will tell Me yours. You will also have options to pay a weekly maintenance fee and be referred to by your machine number.
You will not be entitled to photos of what I have purchased, nor shall I be providing receipts showing where I shop. Machines should know how to behave themselves.

 Adopt a Bill

• Everything in My life is already paid for. Do NOT make the mistake of thinking that by adopting a bill you are somehow keeping a roof over My head. These are here for your benefit, to give you and your life purpose. Adopt one of these to prove you are worthy.
• There are three ways to adopt one of my bills. 
• Firstly, you may visit My Venmo page where below you will find a recurring choice of daily, weekly and monthly bills to adopt.
• Secondly, you may visit My Wish Tender page. There you will find a large choice of bills to adopt. But....bear in mind that they cannot be set to repeat automatically, so you will have to enjoy pressing send all by yourself.     
• https://allmylinks.com/feed
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• Finally, you may simply look down to the following shorter section of weekly bills you can choose from and pay immediately via any of my tribute methods.
• Don't forget to be generous - There is no room in My realm for the weak willed and tight fisted.            Go here and pay on Venmo Wishtenderis down   https://allmylinks.com/feed